Our Gospel lesson for today
is a fairly familiar passage for me.
It was used to describe my grandmother,
who was often called “a Martha,”
which was a euphemism
for a woman who worked as hard as she did.
She seemed to always be in the kitchen,
always preparing something.
Occasionally,
I would see her sit down
to watch a soap opera,
but if she did,
there was a bowl in her lap,
and a 10lb. bag of potatoes at one hip
and a colander at the other.
She would peal those potatoes with a paring knife
with long winding peals into one bowl,
and then cube the naked potatoes into the other.
Those potatoes would go into a pressure cooker
with chunks of beef,
and while that sputtered away,
she would change loads of laundry
from one machine to the other,
balance her checkbook and the church’s,
sweep the house,
prepare to teach Sunday School,
and entertain the grandkids.
She served the church as
secretary,
treasurer,
custodian,
and youth Sunday School teacher,
sometimes in multiple capacities at once.
What Luke here calls
“a certain village,”
we know from the other Gospels
was the town of Bethany,
and these women are the sisters of Lazarus,
whom Jesus will raise from the dead.
The town of Bethany
and the home of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus
becomes something of a home base for Jesus.
He will stop here often on his travels
to teach
and presumably,
to be ministered to by Martha.
My grandmother’s house
was also something like our family’s Bethany.
We would come weary
and beset by the pressures of the world,
and we knew we could retreat to Mamaw’s house,
to be ministered to by our very own Martha.
Maybe it’s because I can see so much of Martha
in my grandmother,
that Jesus’ words have always seemed a bit harsh.
He seems to chide Martha for asking for help,
and seems to insinuate that Mary,
who has been sitting and listening to Jesus,
has done something greater,
better,
preferable,
by neglecting service,
by not helping her sister,
by not providing for the care
of Jesus’ body and those of the disciples.
Mary loved Jesus,
visited with Jesus,
listened to and learned from Jesus,
but Mary didn’t serve Jesus
the way Martha did.
My grandmother
was also a woman of deep faith.
All of that work I described,
ran on prayer
and a “half a cuppa coffee,”
always Maxwell House instant.
She and my grandfather were always up early,
and just after breakfast,
she would read from the scriptures,
perhaps a devotional,
and he would pray for them.
This was virtually every morning
of their 62 years of marriage.
My grandmother poured over the scriptures
like a lawyer over a contract,
like a war bride with a letter from the front,
clinging to every word,
believing every promise,
and loving Jesus,
because he first loved her.
My grandmother
chose both parts,
she chose love
and service.
In fact,
her service flowed from her love,
and loved flowed through her service.
Jesus is not admonishing Martha
to neglect her service
because conversation is better.
Jesus is inviting Martha
to keep her priorities in order.
Mary has not chosen the better part,
but she has chosen the primary part,
the first-things-first part.
Jesus is inviting Martha to rest,
to relationship,
to Sabbath,
to work from her rest,
rather than rest from her work.
And from this relationship,
from this place of rested renewal,
from the vantage point of ordered priorities,
Mary and Martha can rise and work together.
Over the first half of this year,
I have been meeting regularly
with two groups of people,
an Outreach Task Force
and an Inreach Task Force.
Each has taken some time in these months
to consider with me
what God has done in this congregation in the past,
and to discern with me where God is leading us
for the future.
We might think of the Outreach Task Force
as “Team Martha”
and the Inreach Task Force
as “Team Mary.”
Then,
we can think of the congregation
as Bethany,
the sort of place that might minister to folks
where they are
and while we have them.
The Inreach Task Force,
our “Team Mary,”
is working to establish new strategies
for faith formation,
fellowship,
and growing in our love for Jesus and each other.
The Outreach Task Force,
or “Team Martha,”
is working to establish new strategies
for discovering the needs of our neighbors,
assessing our resources,
and finding new ways to become
what our neighbors need.
We must choose
to be both Mary and Martha,
both individually
and as a congregation.
As we continue to commit ourselves
to love God
and love our neighbors,
our neighbors keep telling us
that housing is an issue.
The recent changes in the housing market
has greatly affected the rental market,
and as a result,
many folks are struggling to feed themselves,
and many are finding themselves living in their cars
or worse.
Our readings for today
provide us with a unique window into ourselves.
Hospitality
is our primary spiritual gift
and our primary calling as a congregation.
Going forward the Inreach and Outreach Task Forces
will be working to strengthen our existing relationships
with our ministry partners
and to establish new ones
to address the needs of our neighbors.
And we invite you to pray with us.
How might we use our resources
to become in this community
the oaks of Mamre
for strangers in need of rest
or Bethany to those passing through?
Abraham became a host to God,
and Mary and Martha
ministered to Jesus.
How might such a ministry
change our lives and our faith
if we saw these strangers,
these neighbors,
as God’s own self?
How might our understand of the simplicity
of Christ’s own self
offered to us in bread and wine
invite us to work with what we have
to make a difference in the lives of our neighbors?
Our task
as a congregation,
and as individuals,
is to choose both parts,
to integrate our inner Mary and our inner Martha.
To commit ourselves to simplicity in service,
to devotion to Christ,
and to discipleship,
following the teachings and example of Christ
in our daily lives.
We cannot be so consumed with service
that we miss the relationship,
nor so consumed with our relationship
that we neglect service.
Hospitality
is service from love,
a love for God
that births a love for neighbor.
I am the product of such a love;
my grandmother’s love for God
birthed a devoted disciple,
who loved me so well,
that when she taught me that God is Love,
I knew exactly and instinctually
what that meant,
because I had experienced it in her.
I knew what it meant to receive it
and I knew what it meant to give it away.
One part is not “better” than the other,
but one precedes the other.
God is calling us to become
a Mary and Martha congregation,
the sort of place
where others will know exactly and instinctively
what it means that God is Love
because they will have experienced it in us.
Will we let that be taken away from them?
Amen.