In liturgical year A,
our gospel readings will be set
primarily
in the Gospel of Matthew.
Each of the four gospels
provides a unique perspective
on the message,
ministry,
and person
of Jesus.
Historically,
the Gospels are each depicted in art
with symbols that represent the tone of the book.
Mark,
probably the first of the four,
is short and action packed,
and is depicted as a winged lion.
Luke,
written by a physician,
and the most complex,
is depicted as a winged ox,
a beast of burden,
for all the work this gospel is doing.
John’s gospel,
written last,
is written once the church has had ample opportunity
to grapple with who this Jesus is,
and because they know him to be God in the flesh,
one step ahead of everyone else.
John’s gospel
is depicted as an eagle,
an image of Jesus’ soaring rhetoric
and transcendence.
But the gospel of Matthew,
written sometime between Mark and Luke,
is about Emmanuel,
God with us.
For Matthew,
Jesus is a prophet,
a priest,
a king.
Jesus is the new Moses,
the new Elijah.
Matthew’s gospel begins with the promise
that this child born to Mary is Emmanuel,
God with us,
and ends with Jesus’ promise,
“I am with you always,
to the end of the age.”
The Gospel of Matthew
is depicted
as a person.
For Matthew,
this image of God—
born of the flesh,
born of a woman,
born into the care of Joseph—
this Jesus
is Emmanuel,
God with us
in the flesh.
But Joseph
didn’t have the benefit
of 2000 years of interpretation
and art history
to help him understand
that the news he had received
about Mary’s pregnancy
was anything more
than an insult,
a slap in the face,
an assault on his manhood,
on his dignity.
Joseph was a righteous man,
by all accounts.
He was perfectly within his rights
under the Law,
to send her away,
to break the engagement,
which actually required a divorce,
even though they were not yet married.
He would also have been within his rights
to expose her,
to reveal her obvious treachery,
her infidelity,
to condemn her.
But because he is a man of righteous character,
he chooses to simply sidestep the issue,
after all,
this clearly isn’t his problem.
This was done to him,
but rather than open the both of them
to public shame,
he will send her away quietly,
and he will return to his normal life.
And who could blame him.
Why should he be responsible
for someone else’s child?
Someone else’s family?
There are many in our own lives
we would be content to
“put away quietly,”
to wash our hands of,
to absolve ourselves of any responsibility for.
It is easy to think,
“I cannot cure poverty.
I do well to make my own ends meet.
Surely, God does not expect me
to do more for others
that I am able to do for myself.”
Maybe our thinking sounds more like
“I have worked my tail off to get where I am.
Those who don’t have what I do
couldn’t have worked as hard as I have,
so let them work for it
like I did.”
Maybe we’ve been tempted
to throw up our hands
give up on the idea of climate change,
because the difference we’d make alone
will never solve the problem.
Or maybe we’re ready to walk away
from Christianity
which seems like it’s more obsessed
with self-preservation
than living the example of Jesus.
Whatever it is,
you are not alone
in feeling crushed by the weight
of something larger than you,
larger than you can change alone,
larger than you can solve alone.
And like Joseph,
there is nothing to stop us from going,
nothing and no one
to prevent us from putting away quietly
all the things we’d rather not be responsible for.
When Joseph has made up his mind
to use the right he has
to walk away,
God comes to Joseph in a dream.
God comes and confronts Joseph
with the opportunity
to go beyond the letter of the law
and live by the root of the law;
God calls Joseph
to do what God is doing.
God too is righteous.
God too could have looked at the human race
in our neediness and wantonness,
and God could have walked away.
God could have killed Adam and Eve in the Garden.
God could have killed Noah in the flood.
God could have let the children of Israel
remain in slavery in Egypt,
or killed them with starvation and thirst
when they complained about their freedom.
God could have put away Israel
because of David’s sin,
could have destroyed the people
under the Assyrians,
the Babylonians,
the Greeks,
the Romans.
But God didn’t.
God came down to the garden.
God gave the rainbow to Noah,
freedom and food to the Israelites,
honor and glory to David,
return for the exiles.
And now,
God has come to Joseph in a dream.
God has come to Joseph
in the life and faithfulness of Mary.
God is coming in the flesh and bones of Jesus.
And beloved,
God is still coming in flesh and bone.
Matthew’s gospel is represented by a human face
to remind us to look for God
hiding behind human faces.
God is with us
in those we would prefer to put away quietly.
God is with us
in solidarity with the human condition,
choosing our lot as God’s own,
making our needs
God’s needs.
Making our suffering
God’s suffering.
Making our joy
God’s joy.
This is love;
choosing to live in solidarity with another
until their problems are our problems,
their joys are our joys,
their lives are our lives.
Joseph shows us what it is to love,
what it is to live in solidarity,
by hearing and trusting the call of God
to take Mary as his wife
and Jesus as his own son.
We too have the opportunity
to live in this solidarity,
seeing God in the human faces we encounter
in our work,
in our world,
in our homes,
and even in the mirror.
God is coming in the flesh.
O come to us,
abide with us,
our God,
Emmanuel!!
Amen.