When our family moved to South Carolina
to begin seminary in 2016,
we made the decision
to send Zion to a Catholic school
rather than the school across the street from the seminary.
We had been advised
by the spouse of a fellow seminarian
who had taught there the year before
that we should NOT send our son there.
Her experience was so terrible
that she left the profession of teaching altogether.
One of the things about this arrangement
is that Zion took religion classes
from a Catholic perspective,
and then he would leave third grade,
and come and sit with us in a master’s level course
studying the Gospels in Greek
at a Lutheran seminary.
For the most part this is a wonderful thing,
and when there is a disagreement,
Jennifer and I have the opportunity
to have a conversation
about the nuanced differences
between Lutherans and Roman Catholics.
This is good for Zion, too.
He is still in Catholic school,
and being the son of not one,
but TWO seminary educated pastors,
Zion is kind of a rock star in religion class.
How many adults do you know
who could articulate the difference
between the Catholic doctrine of transubstantiation
and the Lutheran doctrine of ‘real presence’
in the Eucharist?
Well, our 11-year-old could!
Once in the 4th grade,
during a school assembly,
the principal made an off-handed comment
about her Lutheran roommate in college,
telling the students that Lutherans don’t believe
that Jesus is really present in the bread and wine
at communion.
After the assembly,
Zion told his teacher
that he needed to speak to the principal.
Zion took his hall pass,
sat down in the principal’s office,
and proceeded to explain what Lutherans believe
about Christ’s presence in the Eucharist,
and how, by and large,
we actually believe the same thing as Catholics,
we just articulate it slightly differently.
As you might imagine, this raises the bar
for the kind of questions Jennifer and I get at home.
We missed the sort of questions
that children normally ask
about faith and the Bible,
like,
‘Can God make a rock so big
that God can’t lift it?’
Instead,
Zion once asked,
“Dad, if Jesus died for our sins
so that we could have eternal life,
why do we still have to die?”
Good question, Buddy.
We hear some very similar words in today’s Gospel—
and maybe even in the depths our own hearts.
Mary,
repeating exactly Martha’s words
from a few verses earlier, says:
“Lord if you had been here,
my brother would not have died.”
Those standing nearby,
seeing Jesus weeping, ask,
“Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man
have kept this man from dying?”
Who can’t relate to these huge questions?
Who has experienced the death of a loved one
and hasn’t wondered
why Jesus didn’t show up on time?
Who hasn’t borne in their soul
Martha’s accusation,
Or Mary’s lamentation,
Or the bystanders’ consternation
At the graveside of one gone too soon.
Jesus’s response to Mary,
To those grieving with Mary and Martha,
Is compassion.
Jesus is moved not only to tears,
But to anger at the death of his friend.
The NRSV says Jesus was “greatly disturbed,”
But this word in the original Greek actually means
That Jesus was enraged at the death of his friend.
Jesus’ tears
are not just sadness for his friend
but condensing steam
from a boiling rage
at what death has done,
not only to Lazarus,
but to Mary and Martha
and to the whole community.
Perhaps Jesus is even angry
at what death has done to humankind.
Perhaps he is overwhelmed
by the knowledge of his own death,
which is coming all too soon.
Whatever the source of these tears,
This anger,
Jesus enters it
willingly.
There is an old spiritual
That goes
Rock-a my soul in the bosom of Abraham,
Rock-a my soul in the bosom of Abraham,
Rock-a my soul in the bosom of Abraham,
Lord, rock-a my soul.
So high you can’t get over it,
So low you can’t get under it,
So wide you can’t go ‘round it,
You must go in at the door.
This slave song speaks a truth about death.
The bosom of Abraham is the grave,
death, sheol, Hades,
and the song teaches us that the only way out
is through—
through the anxiety,
through the anger,
through the sadness,
through wishing things had turned out differently.
God has been bringing God’s people
to these thresholds from the beginning.
God led creation through the flood.
God led the Hebrews through the Red Sea.
God led the Israelites through the wilderness.
and through the Jordan.
God led God’s people through captivity,
Though the fiery furnace,
Through the lion’s den.
And here,
at the opening to this cave,
Jesus does not go over, under, or around his grief;
Jesus does not avoid his anger or try to blunt it;
Jesus does not tell Martha to buck up and get over it,
nor does he make space for Mary
to wallow in her despair.
Jesus walks right into the stinking reality of it.
Jesus knows what he will do.
Jesus knows that Lazarus will live again.
Jesus knows that he will raise Lazarus from the dead.
But Jesus does not tell Mary not to weep.
Jesus weeps with her.
Jesus does not tell the crowd not to be angry.
Jesus gets angry, too.
Jesus is not repulsed by the stench of death,
put off by their tears,
put out by their anger,
Or hindered by their ideas about what was possible.
Jesus enters willingly into their grief
shakes a defiant fist in the face of death
and shouts his name into the darkness.
LAZARUS, COME OUT!!!
Beloved,
The good news for us today
is that this same God
who saved creation in the flood,
brought the Hebrews through the Red Sea,
and the Israelites through the Jordan;
this same God who brought Daniel through the lions’ den
and stood with Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego
in the fiery furnace;
this same Jesus who cried with Mary
and raged with Martha,
and woke the dead by calling his name,
is the exact same God
who speaks into our deepest,
darkest tombs
and call us out by name.
Jesus is not repulsed by the stench of death,
put off by our tears,
put out by our anger,
Or hindered by our ideas about what is possible.
Jesus enters willingly into our grief
shakes a defiant fist in the face of death
and shouts our name into the darkness.
BELOVED, COME OUT!!!
Our hope is not that God will lead us over, under, or around
our grief and anger
at all the changes and loss we will endure.
Our hope is that God will bring us through it;
Through the waters of baptism to new life now,
And through the darkness of death
to new life at the resurrection.
So let us be unbound by the shroud of death
and set free to love our neighbors
as Jesus loves us.
May we refuse to be repulsed by the stench of death,
may we enter willingly into the grief of our neighbors,
may we shake a defiant fist in the face of death
and may we call out to a world entombed in anger and fear,
NEIGHBOR, COME OUT!!
Let us wipe away your tears,
let us unbind you.
Death has been swallowed up forever!
Let us share the Feast.
Amen.